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当洁癖男遇到拉遢女 Withthreekidsandahomebusiness, and her disabled mother living with her, Kristen Becker often lets the dishes andlaundrypileup. I am very comfortable with chaos, she says.克里斯汀?贝克(Kristen Becker)有三个孩子，一份在家里做的生意，还有一位身患残疾的母亲和自己住在一起，在这样的情况下，她常常会任由脏盘子和脏衣服堆积如山。她说，我一点儿也不在乎又脏又乱。Herhusbandisnt.可她的丈夫在乎Heorganizeshisclothingbytype,colorand pattern,alphabetizeshisCDcollectionandkeepsrubberglovesinhiscarforunexpectedspills, she says.贝克太太说，她的丈夫会按种类、颜色和款式摆放衣服，把CD按字母顺序排好，在车里准备一双橡胶手套，以防意外喷溅事件发生。Hesometimesgoadshiswifeintobeingneaterbymakingonlyhishalfoftheirking-sizebed, heaping the magazines and bills splayed across the kitchen counter into teetering stacks, or moving his wifes mound oflaundryacrosstheroom.他有时会迫使妻子变得更整洁一些，比如他会只整理双人床上自己的那一边，把厨房桌子上散落的杂志和帐单堆成摇摇欲坠的一摞，或是把妻子小山式的脏衣服在房间里搬来搬去。Ms. Becker retaliates by letting her messes pile up even higher. But one day she couldnt take it anymore. Sick of her husbands incessant straightening and scrubbing, she decided todismantlehisneatlyorderedlife.而贝克太太则以把东西堆得更加壮观进行回击。不过有一天，她再也忍不住了。厌倦了丈夫不断的整理和擦拭，她决定颠覆丈夫井然有序的生活。Whilehewasatwork, Ms. Becker rearranged his closet -- randomly moving shirts, pants and sports jackets together, and pairing slippers with boots and sandals with loafers. She moved his toiletries around in the bathroom and took papers out of his file folders and put them back in the wrong sleeves.趁着丈夫上班的时候，贝克太太重新“整理”了丈夫的衣柜──把衬衫、裤子和运动外套乱七八糟地扔在一起，把拖鞋和靴子配成双，把凉鞋和休闲皮鞋配成对。她把卫生间里丈夫的洗漱用品来了个大搬家，把件夹里的纸张拿出来，然后放到另外一个套子里。It was delicious, says Ms. Becker, 39 years old, who runs an online gift shop from her home in Crofton, Md. I was getting him back for all those times I felt pressured to keep things clean and organized. (Her husband immediately moved everything back. He declined to be interviewed for this column.)贝克太太今年39岁，家住马里兰州克罗夫顿，在家经营着一个网上礼品店。她说，太棒了，我是在报复他一直以来强迫我保持东西干净整齐。（她的丈夫马上又把一切恢复了原位。他拒绝就本文接受采访。）Inthebattlebetweenmessyandtidy, which side should win? Should slobs learn to be neater? Or should neat freaks loosen