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Howto spot a liar ? PamelaMeyer 2011 Okay, now I dont want to alarm anybody in this room, but its just come to my attention that the person to your right is a liar.Also, the person to your left is a liar. Also the person sitting in your very seats is a liar. Were all liars. 我不想吓唬你们，但是我发现坐在你右边的那个人是个骗子。坐在你左边的人也 是个骗子，坐在你位置上的那个人还是个骗子，我们都是骗子。 What Im going to do today is Im going to show you what the research says about why were all liars, how you can become a liespotter and why you might want to go the extra mile and go from lie spotting to truth seeking,and ultimately to trust building. 今天我要讲的一项研究我们为什么是骗子，如何识别谎言以及为什么要大费周折 从识别谎言走向寻求真相，最终走到信任的建立。 Now, speaking of trust, ever since I wrote this book, Liespotting, no one wants to meet me in person anymore, no, no, no, no, no. They say, Its okay, well email you.I cant even get a coffee date at Starbucks. My husbands like, Honey, deception? Maybe you could have focused on cooking. How about French cooking? 说到信任，自从我写了《识破谎言》之后，谁都不愿意再和我面对面打交道了， 没门。大家都说：没关系，我们会给你发邮件的。 我甚至约不到人去星巴克 喝咖啡，我先生说：“亲爱的，测谎？你还是把心思花在烹饪上吧。学做法国菜， 怎么样？” So before I get started, what Im going to do is Im going to clarify my goal for you, which is not to teach a game of Gotcha. Liespotters arent those nitpicky kids, those kids in the back of the room that are shouting, Gotcha! Gotcha! Your eyebrow twitched. You flared your nostril. I watch that TV show Lie To Me. I know youre lying. No, liespotters are armed with scientific knowledge 第 1 页 of how to spot deception. 切入主题之前我先澄清一下我演讲的目的，不是叫你们玩测谎游戏。测谎者并不 是专门挑刺的孩子，那些孩子站在屋子后方大喊：“发现了！你的眉毛动了你的 鼻孔动了。我看电视剧 “别对我撒谎”，我知道你在说谎。”不。测谎者以识破谎 言的科学知识来武装自己，找出真相。 They use it to get to the truth, and they do what mature leaders do everyday; they have difficult conversations wi