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你不可不知30个人生哲理(下) 　　Since today is my 30th birthday I thought it fitting to share 30 things I understand now that were complete mysteries to me just a few short years ago. These are simple lessons about life in general that I picked up while traveling, living in different cities, working for different companies (and myself), and meeting remarkable and unusual people everywhere in between. 　　 走过人生第30个年头，多少会有一些感慨，而能在此和你们一同分享这30个人生真理，实在是再好不过了。我曾经也困惑过、彷徨过，然而，我渐渐在一些经历中悟出了些许真谛，有的是在旅行中的灵光一现，有的是生活在不同城市时的所见所闻，抑或是在不同公司工作时所习得的经验，当然啦，也包括和那些卓越不凡的伟大人物的结识，从他们的身上，我也学到了很多。现在，我就为大家献上我悟出的30条人生真理。 　　 13. Every morning you are faced with two choices: You can aimlessly stumble through the day not knowing what’s going to happen and simply react to events at a moment’s notice, or you can go through the day directing your own life and making your own decisions and destiny. 　　每天早上醒来你都有两个选择：一是碌碌无为、虚度光阴，等到事情迫在眉睫了才勉强去应对。而另一种选择是，把命运掌握在你自己的手里，你的人生你做主。 　　 14. Everyone makes mistakes. If you can’t forgive others, don’t expect others to forgive you. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you. 　　人无完人，是人都会犯错。你不去原谅别人的过错，凭什么奢望别人会原谅你？原谅，不仅仅是对他人的谅解，也是对自己的宽恕。 　　15. It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either cry if you need to―it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again. 　　休息是为了走得更远，偶尔崩溃一下也未尝不可。不要总是假装自己很坚强，无谓地去证明一切都很好。也不必太在意别人的看法，想哭就哭，谁说流泪对身体不好呢？但记住，哭完了，请你继续微笑着面对人生。 　　 16.We sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we are temporarily upset. A lot of heartache can be avoided if you learn to control your emotions. 　　 有时候我们会因为一时的失意做出让我们抱憾终身的事情。学会控制你的情绪，你就不会为很多无谓的事情心痛了。 　　18.Nobody is perfect, and nobody deserves to be perfect. Nobody has it easy. You never know what people are going through. Every one of us has issu